The Predator in the Family

"My uncle took graduation pictures that made my skin crawl."

He watched me too closely. He complimented the wrong things. Then he vanished—left the country to escape accountability. He taught me that not all predators are strangers. And not all families protect you. He chose whiteness, distance, and power over accountability. That pattern didn’t begin with him, but it ends with me.

🧠 Narc Traits:
Predatory behavior, sexual boundary violation, deflection, generational trauma, racial self-hate.

🌺 Chakra Focus: Sacral
🪞Journal Prompt:

• When was my body’s "no" louder than anyone’s words?

• What have I been forced to forget to protect others?

• How did my family react when I spoke up (or didn’t)?

✨ Affirmation:
“My body is sacred. My boundaries are law.”

🧬 Nervous System Impact:
Freeze response, disassociation, deep sacral trauma.

🕯 Symbolic Quote:
“Family is not a free pass to harm.”