Sisters by Blood, Saboteurs by Choice

"She gave birth on my birthday. Twice."

My sister gave birth to her daughter on my birthday—and her best friend (my son's godmother) gave birth to her second daughter on my son's birthday. Coincidence? Or karmic sabotage dressed as celebration? They tried to eclipse my light by replicating my timeline. But spiritual jealousy wears many masks. I was never meant to compete—only to break the curse.

🧠 Narc Traits:
Mirroring to manipulate, obsession, envy masked as sisterhood, triangulation through children.

🌺 Chakra Focus: Solar Plexus
🪞Journal Prompt:

  • When did I realize she was copying me, not supporting me?

  • What was I taught about family loyalty vs self-protection?

  • Do I believe I deserve to shine?

✨ Affirmation:
“I do not shrink to make others comfortable. I was born to radiate.”

🧬 Nervous System Impact:
Hypervigilance, comparison paralysis, identity confusion.

🕯 Symbolic Quote:
“Birds of the same feather flock together—but I was born to fly alone.”

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